Is Confidence Overrated? What You Actually Need to Succeed (and Be Happy)

You’ve read the books. You’ve made the vision boards. You’ve done the affirmations.
But if you’re still chasing the same goals year after year… maybe it’s not about confidence at all.

In this eye-opening conversation on The Love Pod, Bobbie Maloy reveals why so many high achievers still feel stuck, even after checking every box of “success.”


She shares how she went from living the perfect American Dream — six-figure career, beautiful home, family, and stability — to realizing she was living someone else’s version of fulfillment.

Her discovery? Confidence can look strong on the outside while self-trust crumbles within.

If you’ve ever asked, “Why do I feel lost when my life looks right?” — this episode is your turning point.

🎥 Watch or Listen to the Full Episode:

▶️ Watch on YouTube
🎙️ Available now on The Love Pod Podcast



In This Episode, You’ll Discover:

✅ The life-changing difference between confidence and self-trust (and why one without the other leads to burnout)

✅ Why your vision board isn’t working — and how to finally align your inner world with your outer goals

✅ The “origin point” of self-sabotage and how to heal it for good

✅ How a single exercise with two circles can redefine who you are — and who you’re not

✅ What ego-driven success costs you (and how to reclaim fulfillment without giving up ambition)

✅ The simple way to rebuild trust with yourself — one small promise at a time



💡 Key Takeaway:

You don’t build self-trust by doing the impossible — you build it by doing what you said you would.
Every promise you keep to yourself becomes proof that you can.

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