The Surprising Reason You Keep Repeating the Same Patterns (and How to Break Free)

Have you ever looked around at your life and realized… you built everything you were told to — the career, the relationship, the house, the image — but somehow it doesn’t feel like yours?

That’s exactly where Bobbie found herself. In this powerful conversation from Speakers on Edge, Bobbie shares how blowing up her “perfect” life became the start of something far more real: alignment, self-trust, and peace.

She unpacks what it truly means to fail forward — and why what feels like chaos might actually be your clearest path to purpose.

If you’ve ever wondered, “What do I actually want?” — this episode will help you find the courage to answer.

In This Episode, You’ll Discover:

✅ Why doing everything “right” can still leave you feeling completely wrong

✅ How to turn life’s messiest detours into a map back to yourself

✅ The belief that secretly keeps high-achievers from ever feeling fulfilled

✅ What it really means when you’re good at something that isn’t right for you

✅ A simple reframe that makes failure feel like feedback — not defeat

💡 Key Takeaway:

Your failures aren’t proof you’re broken — they’re breadcrumbs leading you back to who you were always meant to be.

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